Help with relationship


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I am in my first relationship, we've been together for 2 almost 3 months and have known each other for a long time. It is an online long-distance relationship.
I am asexual and very confused about my romantic attraction. I love them and I want to be in a relationship with them but I'm so confused by romantic attraction and it's hard to be in a relationship when you're confused. I've been looking at this from a queer perspective but I'm certain it has something to do with me being neurodivergent.
Does anybody know what this could be? Does anybody know what I can do about it?