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<blockquote data-quote="CLW" data-source="post: 15500" data-attributes="member: 4499">Trying to find ANYWHERE Adult Daughter &amp; I can get help/ support. I had an amazing counsellor but ethically she could not help as I would have talked about Daughter in counselling.&nbsp;&nbsp; Someone said RELATE, but that wasn't available&nbsp; either.&nbsp; We LOVE each other obviously&nbsp; but ME/ MY AUTISM ADHD , DIFFICULTIES&nbsp; &amp; things about me due to it drive her insane.It would seem asI u derstand it, we are OPPISITE ENDS OF THE SPECTRUM?? I was!! Not so much now as have complex grief, lively, bubbly , outgoing , talk to anyone anywhere ( latter is still correct, part of HER problem) she ALWAYS finds me HIGHLY EMBARASSING anywhere everywhere. If we go a walk she doesnt want to talk to people or me to, she thinks people dont want me to talk to them &amp; they want to be left alone.&nbsp;&nbsp; If in a car or walking she regularly asks well ' tells' me to STOP TALKING. why speak everything you are thinking .... etc.&nbsp; If I am with someone I EXPECT conversation !!!!????? Is that not normal? Even for autism ??Anyway, that's just a gust!! Anyone ANY IDEA PLEASE where we might get some therapy, counselling or ... together. PleaseMy knowledge is from professionally working with young people with autism &amp; otger similar conditions , hers is too but MUCH HIGHER &amp; HIGHLY EDUCATED.I am not that bright.knowledge from experience working, life &amp; reading.&nbsp; ? Family therapists????Any advice or knowledge of poss suppirt welcome.Knowing me,&nbsp; type all this &amp; wont reach anyone<img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🙄" title="Face with rolling eyes&nbsp; &nbsp; :rolling_eyes:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f644.png" data-shortname=":rolling_eyes:" /> well done if you got this far, Im not good at EASILY explaining things x</blockquote>

[QUOTE="CLW, post: 15500, member: 4499"] Trying to find ANYWHERE Adult Daughter & I can get help/ support. I had an amazing counsellor but ethically she could not help as I would have talked about Daughter in counselling. Someone said RELATE, but that wasn't available either. We LOVE each other obviously but ME/ MY AUTISM ADHD , DIFFICULTIES & things about me due to it drive her insane. It would seem as I u derstand it, we are OPPISITE ENDS OF THE SPECTRUM?? I was!! Not so much now as have complex grief, lively, bubbly , outgoing , talk to anyone anywhere ( latter is still correct, part of HER problem) she ALWAYS finds me HIGHLY EMBARASSING anywhere everywhere. If we go a walk she doesnt want to talk to people or me to, she thinks people dont want me to talk to them & they want to be left alone. If in a car or walking she regularly asks well ' tells' me to STOP TALKING. why speak everything you are thinking .... etc. If I am with someone I EXPECT conversation !!!!????? Is that not normal? Even for autism ?? Anyway, that's just a gust!! Anyone ANY IDEA PLEASE where we might get some therapy, counselling or ... together. Please My knowledge is from professionally working with young people with autism & otger similar conditions , hers is too but MUCH HIGHER & HIGHLY EDUCATED.I am not that bright.knowledge from experience working, life & reading. ? Family therapists???? Any advice or knowledge of poss suppirt welcome. Knowing me, type all this & wont reach anyone🙄 well done if you got this far, Im not good at EASILY explaining things x [/QUOTE]

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